Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Back to Stay!!
It's been sometime since I have been here, I would wish say been so busy but that would be a lie, I guess there was bila Vibe! :=), Anyway Interesting things have been going on around here, Finally I get to go on my much anticipated Leave starting next week, So I guess there will be no excuse for not blogging! :=).
And I just got an invitation to one my exes Weddings! & I have no excuse for not attending. You see we are pretty good friends, I somehow maintain that kind of relationship with all my ex'es apart from that *sad bastard* who slept with my friend (Now that was & is still unforgivable)
Anyway back to this ex, I used to see him way back while in colle, but fell out but for good reasons..LOL..What I mean is that, it was no nasty break-up, anyway we have been good friends since then, n have severally hanged out with his galfriend turned *Fiance*..I can believe I just called her that! Not that am jealous no, there's no reason to be, Just that am still in shock, I can believe he's doing it.
I was in shock when he first called to drop the news, Apparently he saw it fit that I hear it from him first(Not that it matters anyway)..My question is When did he start getting that serious? Even though I have seen the card I still can believe he's doing it!
The wedding is in August and am attending, no excuse not to, Now what I need is a hot date by my side I don't wanna drag my galfriends coz I don't want them looking at me with teary eyes as they exchange vows, pitying me or worse still wishing it was me there..LOL
 
posted by Klara at 2:51 PM | Permalink |


36 Comments:


  • At 26/6/07 15:56, Blogger Unknown

    Karibu back even me I am expecting some leave soon.
    Dealing with Ex's is always a tricky issue but never worry everyone has a past and we still forge ahead regardless.
    Usipotee hivyo

     
  • At 26/6/07 16:21, Blogger Lady A

    Ummm sounds as though you are hatin just a bit. Look what you just said..."you need a hot date by your side..." See your motives isn't right...Even if you did have a hot date, you are still going to cry...I rather have my girlfriend for support, cuz your date will be looking at you like "what?! you still like him" Hot date will know that he's being used too. Get me. Also, are you trying make him jealous or decieve him that you have someone...you get me? Plus you said you are mos def attending the wedding...ummm...another sign...I think you and like most women as myself want to see what this chic looks and size her up. My advice to is is don't over do it on his wedding day, just be yourself. From what I read of you, you don't seem like the type that would try to out do the bride, so that's good. One BIG suggestion, and I encourage you please to do this...take your girlfriend. For one, you will have someone to really share how you feel...two..girl, what if a FINE guy is there checking you out and wanna get to know you, wanna dance with you...honey pls, if you have a date you'll be fussing at yourself, but if your girlfriend is with you, then you are at liberity. Have a good time. I'm saying my 2 cents with love. Don't put yourself through the motions. You have better things ahead of you.

    *you might meet your future husband there. *wink*

     
  • At 26/6/07 16:25, Anonymous Anonymous

    Ex's? truly a tricky affair.
    Me think am hot enough so??

     
  • At 26/6/07 17:14, Blogger gishungwa

    Lady A apart from hating, am with you.Went for an exes w2edding and had the most fun, i was with the girls. I say find a pal you are free to tell anything and who understands the story it will be better that way.

     
  • At 26/6/07 17:17, Blogger Admin UD

    Ok, send me an invite, lemme be by ya side as he exchanged those words with her..'wink wink'

     
  • At 26/6/07 18:17, Blogger Archer

    Ahem! Wink wink!! *right hand raised skywards*

     
  • At 26/6/07 19:42, Blogger Lady A

    That was a lot of love you gave on my post...THANKS! Too sweet. Ok, so not hatin, but jealous a lil bit? Just a bit? Ounce? Teaspoon? Just messin with you *wink*
    @Ugo you are funny! lol
    @Archer, lol, you too

     
  • At 26/6/07 19:58, Anonymous Anonymous

    lady a kumbe even you you saw the hating kiasi . but again .. it common to have kidogo "bile" for an ex irrespective of what cut wethee you were the damper or the dampeee....


    me kuna an ex ... haii wacha tu ..its good we have Good God in heavens kwa sababu if not ..some things i wished her were not pleasant ...even though in her wedding I was all smiles and with my kachile of that time ...

     
  • At 26/6/07 20:19, Anonymous Anonymous

    Now Klara darling, you only hang out with your exes if their's hidden motive & agendas - I know i did.

    Unless what u shared sucked, u will find yourself pale pale ukitaka, ukipewa na uki-regret!

    *Aside... si lakini am still in contention for your current...? LOL

     
  • At 26/6/07 21:08, Blogger egm

    Me, I say go to the wedding and have a blast. Too bad I can't be there to be your date!

     
  • At 26/6/07 23:05, Blogger Booker

    ryc-thanks for the kind words! as a words oriented person, it means a lot when people say nice things about my posts :-)

    Now, onto your post. Since I'm a guy, and have never been in a situation where I went to an X's wedding, I am not experiently[neat made up word, eh?] qualified. But, I tend to agree with the others. Take a galfriend for moral support...

     
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  • At 27/6/07 10:10, Blogger Unknown

    chick u still have abit, tiny bit of jealousy in you, but you will get over it. Haveing to attend an ex's wedding, wololo thats tricky.

     
  • At 27/6/07 11:36, Blogger feather

    Have fun!

     
  • At 27/6/07 11:42, Blogger Klara

    @Kirima
    Thanx Kirima, Atleast u understood where am coming from with this post..Now This Leave si we panga hows to spend it..:=)
    @Lady A..
    LOL! So brutally Honest I must be hating bt not saying it, Believe me I love this kind of honesty..Ok, I admit there's that bit of jealous bt it's normal Right?
    And thanx for ur advice on second thoughts I think I will take my galfriends...BTW the comments @ urs the pleasure was all mine
    @Gish
    Thanx..Am considering that now..Gal Power! Right??
    @Hakeembig
    How hot??? :=) Leta ma digits..
    @Danny
    hehehe..U say that coz u know u r untouchable..so far away..Bt thanx for the moral support....
    @Archer..
    :=), Thanx..Will definately consider ur hand..:=)
    @Kip
    Aki I can deny that, & It . There's that bit bt it aint hating bt jealous kiasi..bt Kiasi tu, cox as per now I got no feelings 4 him..
    Now this experience yako, aiiii..LOL! U see si mimi pekee na feel like that! It's normal! :=)
    @In exes..
    RONFL!!! Aki lakini hakuna motives mbaya, and am sure nothing like that can happen coz apart from being careful we all have moved along..
    That Current slot is filled..Bana ulikuwa wapi??? :=)Labda Future one..
    @Egm
    :=) Thanx! Too bad bt will work out somthin..
    @DJ
    U r welcomed n da pleasure was all mine..
    Thanx for the advice and I guess that's what I will do..
    @BlogVille Idols
    Will definately drop there!
    @K.I.P.U.S.A
    Yeah, Even though I never wish 2 accept that fact..
    aki, so tricky. am still looking at my options..
    @ Feather..
    Will try! Thanx

     
  • At 27/6/07 14:39, Anonymous Anonymous

    Klara..warning; don't take Archa..he'll drag his 'galfriend' too..si 3's a crowd?? :D

    ok, i also still talk to all my exes even though they were all bastards!lol am such a softie..i just can't hate..even though the amount of conversation with them varies i.e my 1st ex we vibe sana..2nd i give one word replies etc..but i still talk,why?? silly me!!need to see pple like u kando kando.

    ok now for your exes wedding,uhm, me am with the gals..don't peleka a hot dude to feelisha him..what cuts when he sees you with anaa hot dude 2days later, si he'll think he left u a mess and now u're jumping from mano to mano?lool bilas!
    peleka a pal (now..seeing how ure gals be playin u like that..)a NICe pal.have a blast..he'll see ure happy,comfortable and moving on with ure life..not 'trying to be happy, comfortable and making effort to move on'.

    pole for the 'mini' post lol got carried away!love mingi ure way..am still angry at ure gal and ex..Double ISH.

     
  • At 27/6/07 15:05, Blogger Seasons & Reasons

    If all fails and you need a date..Halla

     
  • At 27/6/07 15:25, Anonymous Anonymous

    The moment he starts having domez..he'll come crying to you. you wait and see...
    lakini just attend the wedding..so long as you dont cry.

     
  • At 27/6/07 16:17, Blogger Unyc

    Lucky u....going for leave is very refreshing.

    as for a hot date for the wedding, i cn give u my bro's contacts on one condition...nitakuona kando....lol

     
  • At 27/6/07 16:49, Anonymous Anonymous

    klara the trick is act like you aint bothered none..!so in my Ex's harusi ..you should have seen how i was sassing at the chicks huzi- to- be and am like "my guy .. your girl used to give the best Bjs south of interstate 20 and west of loop 12 W ..."

     
  • At 27/6/07 18:06, Blogger Quintessence

    Wuuhuuuu a wedding...Have a Blast!!!

     
  • At 27/6/07 18:07, Blogger jm

    "Is there one amongst the congregation that would object to this union ...?"

    Ebu shock them kinjaro ... hehee, juss 4 a lil' drama ..

     
  • At 28/6/07 12:12, Blogger Klara

    @Betty
    hehehehe! I have taken in that warning seriously..LOL
    We sail in the same boat when it comes to exes na ma drama zao..
    LOL..Will try drag apal I trust..:=)..Thanx for feeling me aki, it means alot..BTW I dont mind u doing a mini-post, infact I wish u did a full post!!
    @seasons & Reasons
    Thanx alot..:=)
    @Farmgal
    LOL! ati he comes running to me!! Auiiiii, Hope not..No I wont be cyring atleast not in public am too tough 4 that..:=)
    @Unyq
    Aki that leave! Wacha tu!..
    Seriously! Ako? Ako? Sasa lazima tuonane kando..:=)
    @Kip
    Aki u! U r crazy! LOL..Bt I need that kind of attitude..So he's marrying so what??
    @Quintessence
    LOL! Definately, Ngoja tu!
    @Mwangi
    hehehe..we acha! ati a lil' drama, that will be in da prime news!! U dont want 2 know how guys can get excited over such..Wacha tu, aoe roho safi..

     
  • At 28/6/07 17:35, Blogger eddiie

    sorry...

     
  • At 28/6/07 18:42, Anonymous Anonymous

    awwww .... looks like yu are feeling kind of left out a bit. It's okay tho, you do not need a hot date. Just go have fun, wish him well and rejoice. In your time, he will also rejoice with you wholeheartedly with no hard feelings. Just look your very best and enjoy yourself.

     
  • At 28/6/07 21:18, Blogger 3N

    enjoy the wedding and promise not to patia the groom...

     
  • At 29/6/07 11:35, Blogger Nakeel

    Call me when shopping for the hot date.

     
  • At 29/6/07 16:20, Anonymous Anonymous

    Thats a very interesting way to meet an Ex. Are you surer you wont be so jealous to stop the wedding. You seem to still feel something for this guy...lol

     
  • At 29/6/07 21:12, Blogger Dennis D. Muhumuza

    klara ma most faithful reader, how dare u did this to me? Do u want 2 die on me? are u a nut job? how could u want 2 attend a party of a dude who 'sacked' u? why would u want another heartache? ....

    ...after catching my breath: can i b that date on your side? but i must warn u; am neither tall nor macho...but am a proud holder of a black belt in karate...do i qualify???

     
  • At 30/6/07 13:58, Blogger Klara

    @Eddiee
    Am sorry too
    @jem
    (Nodding, Nodding) Advice taken in, Thanx alot..
    @3N
    LOL!
    @Nakeel
    That's so sweet of u..Thanx..
    @Oliver
    LOL! Yes I will be bt not that mad enough to try stop that..
    @CB
    LOL!
    U definately qualify, 100% coz I might need the protection! LOL..Thanx cb..

     
  • At 30/6/07 16:08, Blogger GERALD

    The fear of a broken heart is what will create a broken heart. Nothing else can actually do it. You can be abandoned, abused, violated, unloved, rejected, and none of that need cause you to have a broken heart; it is how you handle the experience as to whether or not you will experience a broken heart. You can also have lots of love, support, and kindness in your life and still walk around believing that your heart is broken or will be broken. It is strictly your perspective and your experience of this situation that will cause you to have a broken heart or not.Try to remove that mentality in your mind u will walk on.

     
  • At 1/7/07 01:10, Anonymous Anonymous

    Hi Klara; haki i feel for ya. ALL MEN ARE JERKS!! (me included!). So have pride in ur stride as you go for the ka wedding! Best wishes in trapping another jerk..hopefully , this time, down the aisle.

     
  • At 1/7/07 14:50, Blogger chidi

    good to have you back!!

     
  • At 2/7/07 11:39, Blogger Chatterly

    tricky manenos...enjoy yourself at the wedding

     
  • At 3/7/07 17:02, Anonymous Anonymous

    mujienjoy....

     
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