It's been sometime since I have been here, I would wish say been so busy but that would be a lie, I guess there was bila Vibe! :=), Anyway Interesting things have been going on around here, Finally I get to go on my much anticipated Leave starting next week, So I guess there will be no excuse for not blogging! :=).
And I just got an invitation to one my exes Weddings! & I have no excuse for not attending. You see we are pretty good friends, I somehow maintain that kind of relationship with all my ex'es apart from that *sad bastard* who slept with my friend (Now that was & is still unforgivable)
Anyway back to this ex, I used to see him way back while in colle, but fell out but for good reasons..LOL..What I mean is that, it was no nasty break-up, anyway we have been good friends since then, n have severally hanged out with his galfriend turned *Fiance*..I can believe I just called her that! Not that am jealous no, there's no reason to be, Just that am still in shock, I can believe he's doing it.
I was in shock when he first called to drop the news, Apparently he saw it fit that I hear it from him first(Not that it matters anyway)..My question is When did he start getting that serious? Even though I have seen the card I still can believe he's doing it!
The wedding is in August and am attending, no excuse not to, Now what I need is a hot date by my side I don't wanna drag my galfriends coz I don't want them looking at me with teary eyes as they exchange vows, pitying me or worse still wishing it was me there..LOL
There's something more painful than learning from experience, and that's not learning from it....
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Back to Stay!!
posted by Klara at 2:51 PM
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At 26/6/07 15:56,
Unknown -
At 26/6/07 16:21,
Lady AUmmm sounds as though you are hatin just a bit. Look what you just said..."you need a hot date by your side..." See your motives isn't right...Even if you did have a hot date, you are still going to cry...I rather have my girlfriend for support, cuz your date will be looking at you like "what?! you still like him" Hot date will know that he's being used too. Get me. Also, are you trying make him jealous or decieve him that you have someone...you get me? Plus you said you are mos def attending the wedding...ummm...another sign...I think you and like most women as myself want to see what this chic looks and size her up. My advice to is is don't over do it on his wedding day, just be yourself. From what I read of you, you don't seem like the type that would try to out do the bride, so that's good. One BIG suggestion, and I encourage you please to do this...take your girlfriend. For one, you will have someone to really share how you feel...two..girl, what if a FINE guy is there checking you out and wanna get to know you, wanna dance with you...honey pls, if you have a date you'll be fussing at yourself, but if your girlfriend is with you, then you are at liberity. Have a good time. I'm saying my 2 cents with love. Don't put yourself through the motions. You have better things ahead of you.
*you might meet your future husband there. *wink* -
At 26/6/07 16:25,
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At 26/6/07 18:17,
Archer -
At 26/6/07 19:42,
Lady A -
At 26/6/07 19:58,
lady a kumbe even you you saw the hating kiasi . but again .. it common to have kidogo "bile" for an ex irrespective of what cut wethee you were the damper or the dampeee....
me kuna an ex ... haii wacha tu ..its good we have Good God in heavens kwa sababu if not ..some things i wished her were not pleasant ...even though in her wedding I was all smiles and with my kachile of that time ... -
At 26/6/07 20:19,
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At 26/6/07 21:08,
egm -
At 26/6/07 23:05,
Bookerryc-thanks for the kind words! as a words oriented person, it means a lot when people say nice things about my posts :-)
Now, onto your post. Since I'm a guy, and have never been in a situation where I went to an X's wedding, I am not experiently[neat made up word, eh?] qualified. But, I tend to agree with the others. Take a galfriend for moral support... -
At 27/6/07 10:10,
Unknown -
At 27/6/07 11:36,
feather -
At 27/6/07 11:42,
Klara@Kirima
Thanx Kirima, Atleast u understood where am coming from with this post..Now This Leave si we panga hows to spend it..:=)
@Lady A..
LOL! So brutally Honest I must be hating bt not saying it, Believe me I love this kind of honesty..Ok, I admit there's that bit of jealous bt it's normal Right?
And thanx for ur advice on second thoughts I think I will take my galfriends...BTW the comments @ urs the pleasure was all mine
@Gish
Thanx..Am considering that now..Gal Power! Right??
@Hakeembig
How hot??? :=) Leta ma digits..
@Danny
hehehe..U say that coz u know u r untouchable..so far away..Bt thanx for the moral support....
@Archer..
:=), Thanx..Will definately consider ur hand..:=)
@Kip
Aki I can deny that, & It . There's that bit bt it aint hating bt jealous kiasi..bt Kiasi tu, cox as per now I got no feelings 4 him..
Now this experience yako, aiiii..LOL! U see si mimi pekee na feel like that! It's normal! :=)
@In exes..
RONFL!!! Aki lakini hakuna motives mbaya, and am sure nothing like that can happen coz apart from being careful we all have moved along..
That Current slot is filled..Bana ulikuwa wapi??? :=)Labda Future one..
@Egm
:=) Thanx! Too bad bt will work out somthin..
@DJ
U r welcomed n da pleasure was all mine..
Thanx for the advice and I guess that's what I will do..
@BlogVille Idols
Will definately drop there!
@K.I.P.U.S.A
Yeah, Even though I never wish 2 accept that fact..
aki, so tricky. am still looking at my options..
@ Feather..
Will try! Thanx -
At 27/6/07 14:39,
Klara..warning; don't take Archa..he'll drag his 'galfriend' too..si 3's a crowd?? :D
ok, i also still talk to all my exes even though they were all bastards!lol am such a softie..i just can't hate..even though the amount of conversation with them varies i.e my 1st ex we vibe sana..2nd i give one word replies etc..but i still talk,why?? silly me!!need to see pple like u kando kando.
ok now for your exes wedding,uhm, me am with the gals..don't peleka a hot dude to feelisha him..what cuts when he sees you with anaa hot dude 2days later, si he'll think he left u a mess and now u're jumping from mano to mano?lool bilas!
peleka a pal (now..seeing how ure gals be playin u like that..)a NICe pal.have a blast..he'll see ure happy,comfortable and moving on with ure life..not 'trying to be happy, comfortable and making effort to move on'.
pole for the 'mini' post lol got carried away!love mingi ure way..am still angry at ure gal and ex..Double ISH. -
At 27/6/07 15:25,
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At 27/6/07 16:17,
Unyc -
At 27/6/07 16:49,
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At 27/6/07 18:07,
jm -
At 28/6/07 12:12,
Klara@Betty
hehehehe! I have taken in that warning seriously..LOL
We sail in the same boat when it comes to exes na ma drama zao..
LOL..Will try drag apal I trust..:=)..Thanx for feeling me aki, it means alot..BTW I dont mind u doing a mini-post, infact I wish u did a full post!!
@seasons & Reasons
Thanx alot..:=)
@Farmgal
LOL! ati he comes running to me!! Auiiiii, Hope not..No I wont be cyring atleast not in public am too tough 4 that..:=)
@Unyq
Aki that leave! Wacha tu!..
Seriously! Ako? Ako? Sasa lazima tuonane kando..:=)
@Kip
Aki u! U r crazy! LOL..Bt I need that kind of attitude..So he's marrying so what??
@Quintessence
LOL! Definately, Ngoja tu!
@Mwangi
hehehe..we acha! ati a lil' drama, that will be in da prime news!! U dont want 2 know how guys can get excited over such..Wacha tu, aoe roho safi.. -
At 28/6/07 17:35,
eddiie -
At 28/6/07 18:42,
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At 28/6/07 21:18,
3N -
At 29/6/07 11:35,
Nakeel -
At 29/6/07 16:20,
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At 29/6/07 21:12,
Dennis D. Muhumuzaklara ma most faithful reader, how dare u did this to me? Do u want 2 die on me? are u a nut job? how could u want 2 attend a party of a dude who 'sacked' u? why would u want another heartache? ....
...after catching my breath: can i b that date on your side? but i must warn u; am neither tall nor macho...but am a proud holder of a black belt in karate...do i qualify??? -
At 30/6/07 13:58,
Klara -
At 30/6/07 16:08,
GERALDThe fear of a broken heart is what will create a broken heart. Nothing else can actually do it. You can be abandoned, abused, violated, unloved, rejected, and none of that need cause you to have a broken heart; it is how you handle the experience as to whether or not you will experience a broken heart. You can also have lots of love, support, and kindness in your life and still walk around believing that your heart is broken or will be broken. It is strictly your perspective and your experience of this situation that will cause you to have a broken heart or not.Try to remove that mentality in your mind u will walk on.
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At 1/7/07 01:10,
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At 1/7/07 14:50,
chidi -
At 3/7/07 17:02,
Karibu back even me I am expecting some leave soon.
Dealing with Ex's is always a tricky issue but never worry everyone has a past and we still forge ahead regardless.
Usipotee hivyo