Thursday, August 24, 2006
"...Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones?
I got this rather funny mail from catchhimandkeephim.com and it went-
Dear Klara ''There's something I want you to do that I KNOW will improve your natural ability to read into a man's behavior and his mind.''
Well...the exercise involved answering this questions!!!
1. What is it about "bad boys" or men that aren't available" that is attractive to w0men? And to you?
2. Have you ever dated a guy even though you knew he was a "bad boy" - or found out soon into things?
3. Is there a "nice guy" in your life who would make a great companion but you're not attracted to or share a "connection" with?
Ofcourse I didn't try because trying to do that is like trying to chew bubble gum to solve calculus problems!.... It's hopeless.
Anyway it was all about ''Why don't women pick the right guys? Or even more to the point - why do women pick all the wrong guys?
You might not agree with me, but women (including me) after being heart broken, been cheated on, or finding themselves giving everything they got inside, to get little or nothing in return, still DO feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION for "bad boys".
Does anyone know why?
posted by Klara at 2:39 PM
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That question is a non starter!Of course they do!Women like men want to have their cake and eat it too!Pretty sad for the nice guys though.
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Yeah! you might say that, but again no one real wants to marry the bad guys though....
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Reasons to date a bad boy: excitement, guaranteed adrenalin rush, experienced with the ladies (you won't need to teach him female anatomy). I personally dated a bad boy just for the experience when I was going through a rebellious phase. Sure, it's exciting but there are too many uncertainties (is that a word?) so I bailed out. Anyway, now I'd rather have a nice guy as long as he's not boring. In fact I prefer geeky types.
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I was lucky enough to meet a bad boy/good boy all in one package - and yes, they do exist!
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@girl next door
Too many uncertainities..It's hopeless!Real.Thanks 4 dropping...
@Mia
That's luck indeed, I still ope to meet such a guy one day!!
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Mia's got that right...they sure do exist. The reason bad boys win hands down is because they KNOW what they want...whereas the good boys are just beating around the bush.
(doesn't go for ALL good boys tho)
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@Sam
No matter how funny that sounds, It's true.
P/S. Thanks.
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@mia: are you talking about me? *wink* lol
@klara: girl next door is right, In my experience I think women just like the excitement, the adrenaline rush, a guy who knows how to push your button... *wink*
but hey, find a bad boy gone clean... tip: under that mask of a bad boy is a boy in need of a special kind of attenion
That question is a non starter!Of course they do!Women like men want to have their cake and eat it too!Pretty sad for the nice guys though.