Thursday, August 24, 2006
"...Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones?
I got this rather funny mail from catchhimandkeephim.com and it went-
Dear Klara ''There's something I want you to do that I KNOW will improve your natural ability to read into a man's behavior and his mind.''
Well...the exercise involved answering this questions!!!
1. What is it about "bad boys" or men that aren't available" that is attractive to w0men? And to you?
2. Have you ever dated a guy even though you knew he was a "bad boy" - or found out soon into things?
3. Is there a "nice guy" in your life who would make a great companion but you're not attracted to or share a "connection" with?
Ofcourse I didn't try because trying to do that is like trying to chew bubble gum to solve calculus problems!.... It's hopeless.
Anyway it was all about ''Why don't women pick the right guys? Or even more to the point - why do women pick all the wrong guys?
You might not agree with me, but women (including me) after being heart broken, been cheated on, or finding themselves giving everything they got inside, to get little or nothing in return, still DO feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION for "bad boys".
Does anyone know why?
Friday, August 18, 2006
Thank u mama..............
Among the world's best is my Mama, maybe I sound biased but sincerely speaking she deserves the best..Since my childhood she has been by my side, seen me through all.... What amazes me is her knowledge about me, she is able to sense when am in need of her and somehow is there....
Actually She's the only genuine reason am alive & well today..Doesn't She deserve my all? I doubt I could ever re-pay back all she has done for me? But for her I will do anything!!
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.-Tenneva Jordan
I finally joined KBW, earlier on, I had encountered regestration problems, But am happy now to be apart of a fast growing network.....
Wednesday, August 16, 2006
The X factor
Alot has been said about the X factor, Many articles written about it, but still nothing has helped me. Can a real no strings attached friendship occur between two people who were once together ? How can one mantain such a healthy relationship?, because memories are bound to occur & confuse you further.......
Saturday, August 12, 2006
Damn this Life...................
Yersterday I came face to face with my past, even though it wasn't a nasty breakup, I have always dreaded that meeting, Infact have been avoiding to....But as I sat there listening to how he was doing, I couldnt help wondering where would we be had I not been that "judgemental".....Offcourse all the aspects of his life have Improved, He drives, has a fiance, owns ahouse, etc, while on the other hand nothing real changed in my life am still technically single, I own no house....nothing changed really I just grew older...He went on and on about how his current was understanding, Non-judgemental, patient.....and the list continues. In the end I wished him all the best & headed for home.But I couldn't help wondering why on earth do we make promises we have no intention of keeing?Are human beings destined to be liars?
I let that go remembering the saying: Life is like an onion, you peel of one layer off at atime & sometimes you weep. Infact If I was able to live through that horror, I can take the next thing that comes along...........
Thursday, August 10, 2006
How time flies....
My pal was celebrating her birthday the other day, she was turning 21 again! How time flies by! It reminded just how recently she was longing to be 21 (The golden age) and now that seems so far away, Years have gone by as fast as seconds...and over the years dreams have become realities others painful memories and even others shelved away and forgotten...Someone once said that 'Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey, It reminds us to cherish each moment because it will never come back again, What we live behind is not as important as how we have lived.'The more I think of it the more am convinced so, Time didn't wait for me, there are times I reminisce the older days and wish to go back to the days when I was a wild child with less cares, no broken hearts, no unfulfilled dreams & most importantly no day to day pressures of life. Nobody prepared me sufficiently for Life realities I would face as I got older....But again nobody is taught that, we somehow just learn them along the way.....
Reality is a question of perspective, the further you get from the past, the more concrete & plausable it seems-but as you approach da present, it inevitably seems incredible.
Tuesday, August 08, 2006
From Africa
Anxiety & Fear are very draining emotions that always keep us from fulfilling our dreams. But unless one gets up & does whatever needs to be done to transform their lives, They will sit around waiting forever.... Every change is frightening & contains a risk but as an old proverb teaches us "Nothing ventured Nothing gained".
Sometimes I hold on to certain situations in Life just because am afraid of what will happen if I was to lose em.' For some time now I have been afraid of some looming changes in my life but since they are unavoidable I have been preparing myself psychological to positively accept them. ..................Africa despite all the economical, political & social problems is still a beauty.....
Monday, August 07, 2006
If only wishes were horses...........
If only if I had enough money & time I would have dissappeared to some hidden Island . Somewhere discreet that I could have spend time with myself...Just alone in a small Isolated Island.... There I would have spent hours watching the sun set over the oceans, staring at the breezes, I could have actually done nothing but think......
....And am imagining some place like this.........and lying in that sand...oh my......But it's only a wish.....
Saturday, August 05, 2006
deception....
Have you ever realised after so long that what you've always believed in, what you have thought was real was all fake!
You realise the people whom you have been trusting have been lying...
It happenned to me and I can assure u it's terrible...
"You can fool some of the People all the time, and all of the people some of the time but you cannot fool all the people all the time" --attributed to Abraham Lincoln-
Not giving in
I didn't fall sick afterall & even though this has been a very eventful week. Its finally over. Personal problems had been treatening to bring me down, but fortunately I didnt crack in... Since I have realised that: People who have accomplished alot in Life, are the people who keep trying even when there's no hope at all, and I want my name to appear in that List.......and you will be surprised to know how long you can go from the point you thought it was the end.
They say never, never give up even when drowning always keep your head a float, I have always been one to lose hope in difficulty situations and offcourse it has never gotten me anywhere. I hope 
to always be brave even in the most trying times......
Did I ever mention that Samuel L. Jackson is one of my favourite actors & hero's. Favourite because his is a rags-to-riches story that proves anyone can do great things with hardwork, talent & little luck!.......................................
Friday, August 04, 2006
music & I
Music always has away of soothing my nerves, whenever am feeling overwhelmed it helps me calm down thats why I appreciate what all the people who make music good do.
These are the people who help me appreciate life, who make me relax in this mad world, People like Avril Lavigne, Kelly Clarkson & Don Williams just to mention but a few. Am biased? Its just that I Love country music & Soft Rock.
Albert Eistein once said "If I were not a physicist, I would probally be a musician. I often think in music. I live my daydreans in music, I see my life in terms of music"
Would I say that too? Probably....
...Kelly clarkson...
Thursday, August 03, 2006
Auch!
I have been having this awful feeling of someone who's about to fall sick. The bad news is that I hate being sick, the thought of lying in bed the whole day already makes me sick.
There is no way I can afford to be sick since I have alot to accomplish before the end of the week. So Lord Jesus help me!
Wednesday, August 02, 2006
For sure..............
Life is full of unseen obstacles what counts is how we deal with them, we can be hero's and found a way through them or be victim's who moan about fate. We only have certain ammount of energy and what matters is using it in amore productive way.Am always grateful: For all the heartaches & tears, For all the gloomy days & fruitless years' for I know that these are the things that have helped me grow.
The magnificent Mara River...............................
Tuesday, August 01, 2006
Everyday
Yes, I love people, I love my family, my friends....... but inside myself there's aplace where I live all alone and that's where I renew the springs which dry up.
There are times when I appreciate being left alone, to coil in my world..in my thoughts, today I had that strong need to recoil, but I had to be in this group work thing at my work place. How pathetic I was completely useless....
I got this rather funny mail from catchhimandkeephim.com and it went-
